LATE BIRTHDAY SURPRISE : SO UNIQUE

Well my beloved readers, thank you for reading my awesometastic life strory. This is still about my 21th birthday, 2 nights ago (Tuesday, 23 September 2014)  at 11 PM i was still busy with my laptop in my room, suddenly my friends (Rika Arnita, Anggy Eka Fitriana and Lina Mulyana) came to the downstairs, entered my room while singing "Happy Birthday" brought martabak manis with candles. They also brought 2 gifts for me, one gift's picture frame with aphorisms and the other gift's a book entitled "Mencari Jodoh Jangan Bodoh" by Brili  Agung Zaky Pradika

Picture Frame

The book i should read

Tribal bag from Nadia Azka

They a little bit disappointed on me, because actually my birthday surprise would be held on Wednesday, 24 September 2014 coincide with Nadia Azka (birthday in 7 September 2014) and Dewi Emillia Bahry (birthday in 19 September 2014) but for some reasons that my friends gave me a surprise first. 

Last night,  i was told by Anggy, Lina and Rika that Azka and Dewi would visit my rent-house, they want to cook for a little party with the intention of giving ME a birthday surprise, when in fact Anggy, Lina and Rika would also give them (Azka and Dewi) a birthday surprise too. What do you think,readers? sounds complicated huh!

Here's the day! To make it smoothly happen, i should go out from the house, so Rika asked me to accompany her to go out around Dramaga, we decided to go to the new Hypermart in Dramaga, Giant. The road was very very jammed last night, huh! very exhausted! Our path was finally ended by bought Martabak Telur Kubang in front of SD Dramaga 5. Yummy~

I came home around 8 PM, Ah iya! before i came Azka and Dewi was hidden by Anggy, Lina, and Rika in Rika's room (at upstairs) as if they wanna surprise me but actually they also surprised. Hahahaha

Both of the videos are nice, right? yeeaaa because we're Virgo girls and just awesome. wkwkwk

The gifts

Birthday Girls

Director of Scenario

Birthday Girls II

Being awesome together

Being awesome together II

Thank you for reading the series of my 21th Birthday events. Tralaaaaaa one thing i miss, blood donors~ i will try to donate my blood in this September. I hope i'll make it. :)

FIND THE BABY : HAPPY!

Still remember my birthday project to find another "galih"? Yaaa, today 22 September 2014 i went to RSIA Hermina Bogor to see the baby had come to the world yesterday (21 September 2014). Start my class today 7.30 AM finish 9.30 AM, i went to Babakan Raya bought Lumpia Basah, Alfamid* bought Ultr* Stawberry Milk 250ml, walking up to the in front of Super K*e, waiting for Angkot, back to my rent house~ shortcut to the story, i went to RSIA Hermina Bogor at 10.25 AM.

My letter to the baby

The Gift

When i got the RSIA Hermina Bogor, i went to the receptionist and expressed my intention to come. The receptionist leave me to ask the marketing manager in RSIA Hermina Bogor, Mbak Sofi, about my intention. THEY REALLY WELCOME!!! DAEBAK!!! I LIKE IT~

But.. i should wait about 30 minutes for the marketing manager to notify the director. The director gave me the permission. 11.15 AM my name was called "Mbak Gilang dari IPB yah?" by someone i thought she's a nurse. Damn!!! why Gilang?? ok, i said "Sorry, my name is Galih", and they sorry to me too. haha they said that the birth in 21 September 2014 amounted to 4 babies, unfortunately i just brought 1 gift, so the nurse leaded me to visit the mom of the baby first made a permission to take a picture of her baby. The baby girl doesn't have name yet, her mom said still discussed with her father.

The baby girl

Really cute

ALHAMDULILLAH!!! MY BIRTHDAY PROJECT TO FIND ANOTHER GALIH...CLEAR!!!

WHO ARE YOU?

Yesterday, 21 September 2014 was my 21st birthday. On that day i had two schedules, first's meeting with my mentors from Young On Top, Kak Sirly and Mas Taufan also my friends in team, actually we're 10 CAs in team but it was only 7 CAs who attended. My second schedule was visiting the hospital to see the baby who has the same birthday with me <= My Birthday Project

Well, those schedules would be my priceless birthday gift because by the discussion in mentoring, i could share "what's in my mind, what i want to do, what i believe i can do" with others and also i got so many lessons from this discussion, i could know my friends interested in, what they want to do, even their problem in life. I said that life is unique, no one lives just go smoothly and sometimes people needs a little bit stress to make them growth.

We discussed about How to Find Your Masterpiece? Have You Find Your Passion? Is That Hard For You to Find Your Passion?. This meeting settled us to ready for the next theme in Young On Top Monthly Meeting about Passion and Vision, so that's why we discussed this last evening.

Now, i'm going to share what i got then you can start to "think"

There are 4 problems in life :

1. You don't really know yourself

   Who are you in life? Do you know what personality is like? Do you know what you are really capable of? Have you always lived a life of "just making do?" Are you happy or feeling depressed and frustated for the missed opportunities? Who are you really?

2. There is no fulfilment in who you are and what you do

   Are you proud of your achievements or do you feel that your life has never really started? Are satisfied in what you have obtained in life? Or are you feeling restless, unfulfilled, and confused for what you are facing? Are you struggling with problem still?

3. There is no progress, no future in your life

   Do you know what your life goals are? Have you achieved any of them? Or are you still struggling to reach them? Do you keep hitting a blank wall or closed doors? Are you confident about tomorrow? And what about your dreams? Have you forgotten them or are you still focussing on them?

4. There is no purpose in your life

   What do you live for? Is it something that is here today and gone tomorrow or is it something that will last after you? Do you feel that your life is just like roller coaster or a merry-go-round? Are you making sense of what are you doing in life? Or do you live everyday as it comes? Is your life really worth living? Are you power-full or power-less?

Those are the problems that's always been the case, some people still feel "I run this much but still can't see the finish line" and maybe you feel it too.

These are some questions you have to answer. (the highlighted is my answer)

1. I am excited about my life and turned on by the things i get to do each day. (Yes/No) 

2. Others comment on how happy i am and what fun it is to be around me. (Yes/No) 

3. I get upset and thrown off the track when unexpected situations and circumtances arise. (Yes/No) 

4. I am very clear about the top five passions in my life, those things that matter most to me. (Yes/No) 

5. I make decisions based on what will help me live my passions most fully. (Yes/No)

6. I spend my days doing things i love, surrounded by people i love. (Yes/No) 

7. Life is confusing for me, i don't have a clear sense of direction in my life. (Yes/No) 

After you answer those questions, here it is The Golden Question :

1. What do you live for? (long-term goal)

2. Have you ever wondered. have you ever asked yourself why you are here on earth?

3. What are you living for? (Now, could be related to your long-term goal or not)

4. What are you hoping to achieve in life?

5. What is the reason of your existence?

6. Do you know where are you going? Or are you sailing just following the wind and where ever the wind blows your life goes with it too?

7. Is this what are you living for?

If you still don't know the answer, that's the process you have to find. How? From now every single thing you do, please FEEL IT, FEEL WHEN YOU DO THINGS. If you interested in, enjoy, just KEEP THAT.

I've answered those questions into what i want to be in my life. I'm now as a Management Student in Institut Pertanian Bogor, i just realized that i love biological things since i was in Hi-School but i don't really like kind of math, statistics, ah screw those things, but in fact, in reality we need that, we do that everyday haha

What i want to do is to combine the biological things with management, i found Occupational Health and Safety. Yah, i am gonna take magister in Occupational Health and Safety so with that knowledge i can be career woman in that part. How to get that? Do i know the track? Yes, but still need some "clue".

Because i want to take magister class in september 2015, so what i should do from now is focussing on my "skripsi", make a target February 2015 to graduate, and because i want to get the scholarship in this program, i should apply the scholarship in March 2015, while waiting the process of assessment i can take internship for 6 months. I should believe that what i'm saying now will be happen in my life. That's my expectation in me. How about you? Ask yourself!

What if the unexpected situations and circumtances arise and inhibit your expectation? Haaa, it's only the matter of time, as long as you still on the track, just go ahead!

D-1 BIRTHDAY PROJECT

Hari ini 20 September 2014 aku ada jadwal bulanan training dari beasiswaku di Pusgiwa, Universitas Indonesia. Aku berangkat dari Bogor pagi nih, jam 7 dengan niat sebelumnya top up kartu Flazz BCA untuk naik Commuter Line di Alfamart daerah Babakan Raya dekat kampus. 

Pelatihanku hari ini tentang Motivation dan Introduction of Business and Management tapi aku hanya datang di sesi Motivation saja, karena aku berniat mau ke RSIA Hermina Bogor untuk bertanya-tanya seputar rencanaku memberi hadiah untuk bayi yang lahir persis seperti hari lahirku.

Pukul 12.00 aku izin ke Ibu Mien, sekretaris Yayasan Goodwill International untuk meninggalkan sesi pelatihan selanjutnya, aku bercerita ke beliau tentang rencanaku ini, dia hanya menjawab "proyek kamu sendiri? ada-ada saja, kamu ikut dulu yah sebentar lagi saja setelah makan siang". Kalau Ibu Mien sudah bilang begitu ya sudah aku melanjutkan sesi kedua pelatihanku, saat Coffee Break aku baru cuss ke Bogor.

Saat di Commuter Line dari Pondok Cina menuju Bogor, waaaa penuh banget. Aku kebagian di gerbong yang untuk penumpang umum, aduh disana wanitanya cuma 3 orang saja termasuk aku, kedua wanita itu bersama teman laki-lakinya ya InsyaAllah Amanlah, hmm belum tentu juga sih. Lupakan. Nah, aku sendiri! Aku berdiri nih posisinnya, depanku orang keturunan arab gitu atau arab mungkin yah, ngobrol pakai Bahasa Arab, engga tahu deh mereka membicarakan apa, engga ngerti dan engga mau tahu juga. Hebat loh mereka bisa Bahasa Arab sebegitu lancarnya. 

Turun dari kereta aku naik angkot 02 menuju Bubulak yang selanjutnya aku naik angkot 32 untuk menuju RSIA Hermina Bogor. Selama aku diperjalanan angkot 02, ada mbak-mbak yang nangis-nangis minta uang ke aku dan ketiga penumpang lainnya. Lewat aja yah ceritanya, intinya dramatis sekali tadi di angkot.

Sesampainya di Bubulak, aku ke RSIA Hermina Bogor. Masuk ke Rumah Sakit berharap proyekku lancar. Datang ke resepsionis, bilang gini "Selamat Sore mbak, saya galih. Saya besok kan ulang tahun nih, terus saya mau kasih kado ke bayi yang lahir besok, kira-kira ada engga mbak jadwal bayi yang lahir besok?" si mbak resepsionisnya tersenyum manis dan mengambil catatan gitu deh, dia bilang "engga ada jadwal persalinan besok mbak, kalau persalinan kan biasanya mendadak, coba saja besok datang lagi kesini." Oke, agak pupus harapanku. Belanja beberapa kebutuhan hidup sebentar ke Giant Yasmin dengan berjalan kaki, kemudian pulang.

Aku ingat di Dramaga ada 2 Rumah Sakit, aku hampirilah keduanya. Pertama, RS MD, bungkam seribu bahasa, Intinya NO INFORMATION. Beralih yang kedua, RS yg dekat Dramaga Cantik, kayanya si resepsionis mengira aku penculik bayi. Nihillah hasilnya. Harapan satu-satunya ya RSIA Hermina Bogor itu.

Besok aku kan ada jadwal mentoring di Grand Indonesia jam 15.00, kemungkinan sampai Bogor jam 20.00 atau 21.00. Temanku Nadia Azka (minta disebut namanya) menyarankan aku tetap saja ke RSIA Hermina, kemungkinan bayi lahir besar karena sudah malam. Jika pagi malah kecil kemungkinannya.

Berhasil atau tidak salah satu proyekku ini Mencari "Galih" yang Lain tunggu ceritaku besok yah.

The 21st Birthday Project

Usiaku tahun ini sudah tidak muda lagi. Aku ingin berbuat sesuatu yang bermanfaat bagi orang banyak atau sekedar memberikan sedikit nilai untuk segelintir orang. Banyak banget hal-hal yang akan aku lakukan untuk mensyukuri usia yang Allah masih berikan untukku, mulai dari yang paling egois untuk diri sendiri sampai paling engga egoislah, diantaranya :

1. Jalan-jalan ke luar kota SENDIRIAN 4D3N

   Loh emang bisa? Engga kuliah, Gal? | hehe InsyaAllah aku kuliah semester 7 HANYA hari Senin dan Rabu. Berikut beberapa pilihan kota kunjunganku :

  - Semarang

    Kota yang engga ada tempat wisata yang menarik buat aku namun, aku memiliki seseorang yang sangat ingin aku temui di kota ini. Tapi, kalaupun aku datang ke kota ini sepertinya aku tidak akan bilang ke dia. haha kalau jodoh ya bertemu saja tanpa direncanakan. wkwk Engga mau bilang sama si dia kok ngepost di blog, Gal? Nanti dia tahu loh! | Masa iya dia mau baca blog, buka socmed sederhana macam twitter saja tidak minat. haha

   Kalau kota ini jadi pilihanku, aku akan menghubungi Ahmad Khudhoibi atau udoy, teman SMA-ku. Dia jurusan Teknik Mesin di UNDIP. Aku mau jalan-jalan sama udoy saja ah, semoga saja pacarnya memahami aku yang sedang patah hati. Oh iya, sepertinya aku hanya akan ke kota ini jika aku patah hati. Aku cuma mau sekedar ingin tahu suasananya kota yang terkenal panas ini. Kok jika patah hati, Gal? | Alasannya cuma aku yang tahu bersama Allah :)

   - Jogjakarta

     Kalau pilihan kota kunjunganku jatuh ke Jogja, aku mau menemui Sandy Radhistyo Ramadhan. Dia anak UGM, jurusan apa ya, lupa. Maaf ya san~ haha Sandy ini teman SMA-ku, jadi ceritanya aku Sandy dan Udoy adalah satu kelompok bermain saat SMA gitu loh! Sebenarnya aku engga tahu mau melakukan apa di sini, tapi jelasnya setiap aku mengunjungi sebuah kota, aku harus berwisata kuliner. Mungkin yang aku lakukan muter-muter Jogja makan sana-sini. haha

   - Malang

     Kota yang wajib rasanya aku kunjungi tahun 2014 ini, niat utamanya sih mau ke Museum Angkut, ya kalau ada rezeki lebih mau banget ke Bromo. Tapi jika ke Malang sepertinya lebih seru beramaian deh. Mungkin lain waktu saja, akan kuajak beberapa temanku.

2. Naik Gunung MANAPUN

   Rencana ingin sekali naik gunung ketika awal tahun 2014 aku pertama kali nonton film 5cm di laptop temanku. Entah kenapa, aku agak alay setelah itu mencari-cari teman-temanku yang gemar naik gunung, dan jika mereka berniat naik gunung, plis bangetlah ajak aku. haha 

    Sampai akhirnya, ada sedikit obrolan sama cowok-cowok manajemen IPB 2011 setelah lebaran nanti saat kembali ke Garut, akan ada temanku yang iseng akan naik Gunung Papandayan. Kalau beneran jadi nih, serius banget aku mau~ huhuhu

     Hal ini ingin aku lakukan di usiaku yang hampir ke-21 ini, rasanya aku benar-benar ingin mengenal dunia lebih luas dari yang bisa aku kenal saat ini. Aku mau menuliskan sejarah kehidupanku, yang kelak akan dibaca putra-putriku, juga cucu-cucuku. Bahwasanya, mamanya atau neneknya itu keren banget! haha 

3. Mencari Galih yang lain

   Nah loh, maksudnya? Iya jadi begini, aku mau tahu manusia yang baru lahir ke dunia persis di tanggal lahir aku, 21 September. Aku terisnpirasi oleh Delmar, ketua BEM FATETA yang entah darimana aku bisa kenal dia tanpa dia mengenal aku. hahaha bingung ya? Delmar itu penulis blog juga, kami tidak pernah bertemu sebelumnya, setelah membaca beberapa tulisannya, entah kenapa aku jatuh cinta dengan tulisannya, dewasa sekali coy~ dari situlah aku sok-sokan kenal kepribadiannya Delmar :p

   Awalnya aku ingin mencari 21 bayi kemudian aku beri kado kelahiran bayi tersebut. Namun, setelah aku pikir baik-baik, apa engga kebanyakan ya? 21 bayi? nyari dimana? muter-muter rumah sakit dong~ ah, mager juga jadi seadanya saja. Aku memutuskan ke rumah sakit yang pernah Delmar lakukan, di RSIA Hermina Bogor. Lagipula, aku punya member pasien disana, jadi InsyaAllah pihak rumah sakit mau memberikan aku kesempatan untuk bertemu "Galih" yang lain kemudian berkenalan dengan keluarganya yang mungkin saja inilah yang orangtuaku rasakan saat aku lahir di dunia, hhe juga bayinya pastinya tidak lupa memberikan kado kelahiran. Ah, foto bersama! haha

   Langkah pertama, aku akan ke RSIA Hermina Bogor pada tanggal 20 September, dan menanyakan ke pihak rumah sakit data bayi yang akan lahir caesar maupun normal esok hari atau tanggal 21 September. Jika sudah didapat informasinya dan ternyata ada bayi yang akan lahir tanggal segitu, aku akan kesana lagi esok harinya. Jika kenyataannya tidak ada bayi yang lahir tanggal 21 September, maka aku akan mencari rumah sakit lain untuk menemukan "Galih" yang lain.

4. Donor darah ramean

    Mengumpulkan banyak teman untuk aku ajak ke PMI buat donor darah. hehe Bagaimana? sangat berguna bukan untuk banyak orang? Ya, walau cuma 2-3 orang lumayan kan. Namanya juga berbagi yang kita punya ya sebisanya. :)

Nah, itu semua adalah keinginanku untuk aku lakukan di bulan September ceria tahun ini. Untuk naik gunung kalau jadi sih Agustus :p 

Untuk opsi nomor 1 entah jadi atau tidak aku lakukan, tergantung kondisi. Opsi nomor 3 dan 4 InsyaAllah akan terlaksana sesuai rencana, semoga Allah memudahkan niatku untuk bisa bertemu dengan "Galih" yang lain dan berbagi darahku agar berguna bagi yang membutuhkan. Mohon doanya dan supportnya ya teman-temanku, minimal AYO IKUT AKU KE PMI !!!